you are correct in that the problem is that the holes get worn and no matter what you seem to do, they stay loose. only option is to change the nosebridge. The rivets don't press into the orbitals, just the bridge, so thats the hole that would need to be redrilled.
From the shot you posted the nose bridge and the orbital. I would think like you stated that the nose bridge wouldn't get wear because the rivots solid mount through. But the mount point on the orbital would oblong in the hole were the rivot would go through(pic 3). If you were to fill in the lost material here wouldn't that tighten up the flex of the nose bridge. By drawing in the mount point. Or am I off on what I'm thinking moves. What do you mean about drilling the nose bridge?