Talked to him, he is having major issues with Paypal and requests that if you have not received your item to file a claim through Paypal because they will not let him access his account even to do a refund. This is up to you, if you want to wait it out he said thats fine too but he has no idea when they will release his funds.
I wonder why he hasn't communicated that to the buyer. I would be freaking out too if no contact in 2 weeks after payment has been sent.