Unless you're a "Google ghost" like some of us are told that we are.He actually encouraged me to join. But we already know one another's "good, bad and ugly". But don't think I haven't asked him if his Oakley friends that he is always texting are really who he says they are. Make no mistake about your own wife however, no woman needs a membership to the forum to know how to google you and every pseudonym you have ever used.